If You Understand These 6 Rules In Psychology, You Can Live A Much Easier Life


The first and the foremost thing you have to do to be happy is to stop judging yourself and start studying about yourself and what role do others play in our lives. Sometimes I feel that I have to do a little better to satisfy myself. There are many things which we can’t do in spite of our best efforts. There are things which we don’t even have the audacity to experiment. We ourselves are the reason for our own failure. We live in preconceived notions about things.We are often chained by our own thoughts. The fear of failure is a big enemy to all of us.

Is there a way to get rid of these negative factors? Let us see.

People are not worried about you

We often worry about what others think rather than checking whether I am doing something correctly. Never listen to people who are waiting to see your downfall. Worrying doesn’t solve any problems. Instead, It will make you blind and deaf. Your understanding about what opinion others have about you may be just an imagination. It was formed as a result of your own perceptions about things in life.

We are subject to change

Just ask yourself a question. Are you the same you who was 5 or 6 years back? Even if you get an answer YES, it is not true. You and I are constantly changing and since we accept the fact, we don’t feel much of a change except for a physical change. Your mind is constantly changing. Keep in mind all that has happened in life while making decisions for a bright future.

Stop comparing us to others

We are constantly comparing us to others. This disease has spread more lately, because of the peer pressure through the social media. Taking unnecessary selfies and posting them on Facebook in the hope that you will get beautiful comments is actually ruining us. We are a unique and an incredible creation of God. We are weak and lament over the comments that others post on Facebook about us.

Never expect others to accept your views

If you advise others to help them come out of their problems and they don’t listen to you, don’t feel sad about it. People will change when they realize things from their own experiences and not out of your efforts to help them.

Learn to keep calm

When you are happy and cheerful, you will be able to take better decisions in life. You can advise your friend to bring him out of the bad situation. Everything appears to be in control and all is well within yourself. But, when you are sad and crestfallen, everything goes for a toss. But, coming out of the situation to think of a solution like you are someone else, is really challenging. You have to have control of your emotions.

Never think others will like you: It is not our fault if someone doesn’t like us. Never expect everyone to like you. It is a myth and you try to live along with people who constantly irritate you.

These are 6 six rules you have to understand to lead a cheerful life.


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