How to Trust Someone With ALL Your Heart


Trust is one of the ingredients to make a tasty dish called love. I always wondered what Love simply love can do to a person? It is very true that no relationship can flourish without trust. It is that amazing feeling that brings joy to our lives. Thinking that we can someone to rely on someone makes our heart filled with joy. Be it is our mom, dad, friends or even a lover, it is simply awesome to look forward to them to become cheerful and glad. But at the same time, there is a risk of becoming vulnerable to pain and agony.

Does it stop us from being in a relationship? It is true that in some part of our lives, we get cheated by someone and we struggle with you to recover again from such a situation. Life sucks! Don’t you think you are punishing yourself for the bad behavior of some other person who doesn’t even deserve your love? You have to be strong and understand that you have to go ahead with life.

Imagine that same person is coming back to you realizing his mistakes, is it always necessary to turn down his requests? Should he remain an enemy all through your life? Normally, our minds hold us back from trusting someone who broke our trust. It is one the typical self-protection tactics that out body plays on us. But, should we always listen to it? Or pardon someone who comes back understanding all his mistakes? Let us discuss and find out ways to patch up with him. It is better that you choose a person who is trustworthy. We will also discuss how to trust a person to avoid embarrassment later on.

 

You know the person for the last couple of years

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Before committing in a relationship, make sure that you know that person inside out. Generally, it takes longer, at least one or two years to understanding something about a person. The first thing you have to do is to check compatibility. Later on you can proceed further to give your heart to him. It takes a long time to create and develop a relationship. But, it takes only a few minutes to lose it. So, be cautious and hold yourself from falling for someone who is not worth it. A relationship can survive a shock if one of the persons is ready to forgive and have the intention to continue it.

 

Understand the situation well

When you are down the dumps, there will be many to confuse you saying what your partner has done is wrong. It might have happened that he would have something for your welfare and you fail to understand the situation. There is only a hairline difference between understanding and misunderstanding. So take some time to research what has really happened? It will help you to avoid being a victim of emotional turmoil.

Firstly, be patient. When you fell comfortable, try to bring back those incidents that hurt you to your memory. Think hard about that with the intention to understand the situation. This will help you to bug off the disturbance in your mind.

 

Fall for someone who understands you

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It doesn’t take years to understand a person. Before falling for someone, be convinced of the fact that the other person really loves you and finds happiness in taking care of you. There will be lots of people around you when you are happy and are ready to spend money on them. But, it is very hard to find a person who is there for you when your life gives a test to make you strong. Whoever supports you at that time will be there forever. You can fall in love with a person who stands by your side at the most difficult period of your life.

 

Choose the one who treats you well

If the person whom you have selected for yourself treats you well, you can go ahead with that relationship. Instead, if he doesn’t treat you properly, it is a clear signal that you should never hand over your heart to him. Love is a just like a plant and the manure to help it grow faster is mutual respect. If he doesn’t do it now, take a lesson from that and understand clearly that he is not going to do it ever! Ignore a person who tries to ignore us.

 

Understand your mistake

It is quite usual to happen that a relationship dies because of the fault of one person. If it was you, what would you do? After the initial confusion has settled down, try to recollect what has happened?  If it was because of your mistake that the relationship died, you can always try to patch with your partner who really loved you. Seldom do people do this. This would give a new meaning to the relationship.

 

Forgive the other person

Nobody wants to forgive the one who broke his or her trust. But, if you want to lead a peaceful life, learn to forgive others. Forgiving brings mental freedom. Many people, struggle because they refuse to forgive others and live in a mental cage where they will lose their happiness. Forget and forgive are the medicines that help you come back to the normal life after a shock. But, keep checks to understand whether the other person still wants to cheat on you. By saying  this I am not asking you to be a giddy person and allow others to take advantage of your kindheartedness. Instead, be wise and bold to be a cheerful person.

 

Trust yourself

You can’t trust yourself unless you are bold. Be courageous enough to save yourself. By now, it would be very easy for you because you have already faced with emotional turbulence and this will be enough to stand strong against the negative forces that pull you down. Don’t waste time squabbling with yourself why you shouldn’t come out of this disaster. Instead, explore ways to save yourself. Have self-confidence. If you want, give a second chance to the person who took advantage of you. This will heal the wound to a large extent.

 

Find someone else

Even after giving a second chance, you feel that it is not worth wasting time for the other person, find someone else who will understand your worth. Never cry for a person who doesn’t even care for you. Learn lessons from your mistakes. Prevent from being hoodwinked. If the person finds peace or happiness being with you, e is definitely the one for you. Never lose that person who finds solace in you.

 

Talk to the other person

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Talk to the other person to understand what happened to him to behave cruelly to you. Remind him of the happy moments you shared with each other. Tell him that you are ready to change yourself to give life to this relationship. Tell him that his presence is needed for you to be happy. Let him talk to you. Sometimes, it is because of a misunderstanding that he might have walked away from you. Pouring your heart out will help you to restore peace in your life.

 

In short, gaining trust after a break is as difficult as gluing broken pieces of glass. There should be efforts from both the sides to make it happen. Trust once lost is very difficult to gain. It is always better that you are heedful and alert to stay away from being trapped. This may be sometimes tiresome and intimidating. Never fall for people who will just show off to make sure that you are impressed or fallen for them. Even if you are cheated stand against your feelings like a mighty pillar of strength. This will help you to recuperate.


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