How Long Does It Take to Fall in Love


Falling in love is a fantastic sensation that happens the moment you start fantasizing about a person whom you love intimately. The whole world gets a new meaning which you have never even thought of. You enter into an illusory or whimsical world just as in fairy tales. You feel like sharing even very minute things with your lover. After all, what is love? Love is sharing one’s happiness with others. When you find a perfect partner for yourself, love becomes immortal or death-defying. Most commonly, it happens that we find love in people who are not worthy to be our partners. Then it becomes a mental strain. Finding out the perfect one is a very important thing without which you can’t have a perfect happiness of this relationship.

how long does it take to fall in love scientifically

People say it takes only a moment to fall in love. That is what is called as love at first sight. You feel as if your senses are being carried away by someone and you are out of control. You have already given your heart to your love and started to feel euphoria. Is it a magic or something else? You will be partially dizzy but start to enjoy this new experience. The initial thing you have to do is to introspect or get to the bottom of your heart to know whether the feeling you have inside is true or is just a crush. If your heart gives YES as an answer, don’t stop yourself falling in love with that person more.

Sometimes it happens that you have mixed feelings for a person, don’t put yourself in a panic condition that will drive you crazy. Instead, take some time to think and judge yourself. If still you have intense feelings towards that person, head-on and tell him you love him. Don’t jump into conclusions fast. Otherwise, you refrain from thinking about this person. The more you think, the more confused you will become. Take as much time as you can and draw yourself a conclusion. Before taking a final decision, know something about that person.

how long does it take to fall in love psychology

Love is not all about getting attracted to a neatly dressed woman or man. It is about getting attracted to a guy or girl with certain exceptional qualities that you expect from your partner. Otherwise, initial attraction and love will vanish into the thin air. Before opening up with your heartthrob that you love her, get to know a lot about her. This would do the work better than you think. If she is not compatible, you stop thinking about her. This is the best thing you can do to make lives beautiful. Don’t you think you need at least 1 year to know about your man or woman inside and out?

You should move freely with that your man to know if there is something which you have to know but he is hiding. Identify his real personality to find out his real character, oddity in his behavior, any habit or even character that you hate. This will help you to guide him throughout your life.  If you finalize on the person whom you are going to give your heart within a short period of time, you will have to suffer later on. The initial attraction will disappear within a course of time and it will lead to a breakup. You will unnecessarily suffer a nasty heart ache because you have taken the hard decision to part ways with your lover.

how long does it take a woman to fall in love

Love, at first sight, happens when one looks at the other and feels that his dream girl or boy had just come to them. It may also happen that one may keep on staring or even thinking about the other for hours, maybe, even days, but with no use or never to see their sweetheart again. Sometimes it may happen that you have met your love just now and want to see him again and again. But, the day you are going to meet him again never comes. It is also a wonderful experience you would like to cherish for a lifetime. These are just passing clouds that vanish after a few moments.

It is true that you have to be in a relationship for at least a year to understand your partner completely, but it should stand the test of time. Whatever happens, the awesome feeling doesn’t change. Once you experience this, you can say you are deeply in love with a person. For example, you date a girl for 1 year and something undesirable happens that takes away beauty from her. But, you still see the old charm and beauty of her, that is true love and you can go ahead and express your love for her. Love remains unaffected and unchanged whatever may happen in life. It is a strong feeling that can’t be uprooted even by a cyclone.

In short, there is no such hard and fast rule to say whether it takes a time to fall in love. Some may take a time to fall into a relationship. Some others may take a very little time to say those magical things to you. The most important thing you have to keep in mind is to check whether that particular relationship or person is able to spread happiness when he or she is with you. That is possible if you take some time to dig deep into his heart and find out the reality.


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